Where is the Grass Greener?

Not necessarily on the other side

Or with a different partner

Or with one who behaves differently

Loves differently

Parents differently

Has different expectations

Or handles money differently

The grass is greener where you water it.

What does watering the grass look like in relationships?

Being mindful

Pausing and being present

Noticing and being aware

Choosing with intention how you want to show up and proceed

Allowing imperfection and humanity in both of you

Showing grace and compassion for yourself and for others

Looking for what works

Seeing where you do have a connection

And how your partner does shows love

Even if you think it looks different than you think it should

From here it is easier to see a path forward.

Of course, you are more frustrated in your relationships right now

Pandemics put a lot of stress on relationships

It’s a great time to water the grass

And water it well.

If you want to stop feeling frustrated, resentful, irritated, out of control, and overwhelmed in your relationships --and your life-

Join me for Mindful Love.

And we are all on different paths in different relationships. Sometimes, even with all the watering and mindful love, your relationship is still not a healthy space for you. You can always choose to water different grass.