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Choose to Grow Love
Unlike fairytales suggest, love doesn’t just happen. Love and healthy marriages require tending and attention and intention.
When we show up loving, we grow love. When we show up frustrated, we grow frustrated. MIndful marriage coaching helps you grow love even and especially in neurodiverse relationships.
May You Find Wonder
“Do not ask your children
to strive for extraordinary lives.
Such striving may seem admirable,
but it is the way of foolishness.
Help them instead to find the wonder
and the marvel of an ordinary life.
Why Not "Call It Quits"?
As humans, without mind management, we tend to focus on the negative, our differences, and what is not working. Many of us also have a lot of tendencies to blame -ourselves and others, and quickly revert to guilt, shame, victimhood, anger, and resentment. Coaching helps you shift your perspective, ask better questions, build self-compassion, and find peace with your decisions and path forward whatever they may be. Coaching sets you up for success and peace.
A Cup of Love
When we lean into the beauty of the good we have in our relationships, we experience more good.
There are lots of different models of amazing and worthwhile relationships in this world. Without a doubt, every relationship is missing something. When we let go of comparisons with others' relationships, those who we perceive may have more of what we think we want, and we enjoy our own more.
Could you resist the urge to believe there is a relationship out there that would be better and make you happier?
Could you trust the you who chose this relationship when you chose it?
What if you choose to tell a story about it that feels good and helps you enjoy your life?
What If It Turns Out Better Than You Expect
What if it turns out better than you expect? It can and often does.
At the moment, it all seemed “bad” and overwhelming. I could not see the way forward or a way through.
Today I see that it has turned out amazing. Clearly, it happened exactly as it was supposed to.
What Would Peace Do?
I wanted peace, love, and connection. So I shifted and offered space.
I showed up connecting and peacefully- as if we had all the time in the world for us to move forward.
And I showed up with love. Not just in my mind but in my actions. With a hug and telling him I loved him.
And then….
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